December 10, 2012
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Dear Idiot College Guys…
If you are not an idiot, don’t get your Calvins in a bunch.
If you are, sit down, shut up, and listen…I might just be saving your life.
Perhaps you would like to explain to me after “friend zoning” young women on a regular basis, you WHINE when it happens to you?
Nah…too easy.
How about this…WHY would you even think of asking someone’s best friend out, when you know the girl likes you? Are you actually that clueless? Does it not occur to you that such an action will mess all sorts of things up? And if you don’t “know” it will make an issue, WHY do you ask the girl who likes you if it would “MAKES THINGS WEIRD?” Of course it will, you DOLT. The best case scenario is that the friend will shoot you down…instead of tearing your miserable sack off like a roll of paper towels, as you obviously deserve.
Stop saying that you “don’t understand girls”.
You damned well do. You just don’t like that actions have consequences…and you don’t want to be bothered.
GROW a pair, for god’s sake…and stop acting like the victim.
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Men are babies. The ones that whine about this don’t like to feel emasculated. The rest don’t care.
So very true.
I’ve done some dumb things in my life but one thing I never did was ask a girl out when she was dating a friend, if that’s what you are talking about, even when I knew the liked me. In my day the terms friend-zoning and friends with benefits didn’t exist. I’m not even sure what friend-zoning is.
@TheSutraDude - Hi dude.
As I understand it, “friend zoning” happens when you are interested in someone (male or female) who for whatever reason doesn’t see you as a romantic prospect. “Oh, but I want to be (or stay) friends.” It didn’t have a name back when I was single—but it was done to me a LOT. It pissed me off when the guy decided that he actually DID like me romantically—usually when someone else showed interest…but of course, their interest would wane if I dropped the other guy. I think it’s all part of the “forbidden fruit” deal. To be fair, this Dexter was not dating the girl in question…he merely made a big deal of asking a friend of hers out—and wanted to know f it would “make things weird”. Let’s see…you’re asking out the best friend of a girl who likes you…Nope…can’t see what could go wrong there…sheesh!
@galadrial - Hi galadrial.
Thanks for that clarification and explanation. I’ve also found some guys will hit on any girl or woman regardless of the situation. It strikes me as being similar to being a salesperson. You’re told that out of every 50 cold calls you’ll get 3 prospects and out of every 6 prospects you’ll get one sale….or something like that. To me that attitude totally turns women into objects. Add to that the salesman’s adage and hope, “There’s a sucker born every minute” and it’s a recipe for disaster.
oh it’s the i-don’t-get-girls act. and you said it, by pulling this excuse, they feel it will relieve them the responsibility of acting like a thinking, caring person
Is someone thinking with the Little Brain again? *smh*
you really do get sick and tired of hearing others difficulties don’t you? share something positive and uplifting or grow a life and shut up til it’s achieved? it isn’t a sin to be a little weary of whining.
I liked this. So true.
To be fair some of us college dolts didn’t get girls at all. I still remember a bunch of us were at a mutual friend’s house talking about F15, how freshmen put on 15lbs but I lost 15lbs lol. So I spun while making the joke and the girls in the room went silent. I was like wth just happened. Did I say something corny again? My best friend at the time spelled it out for me, “She was checking you OOOUUUUUT.”
I was like, “Oh.”
Seriously, up until that point in my life it really didn’t occur to me women did that lol.
It didn’t/wouldn’t register lol. Back then when I liked people it was really about how people clicked. Or as we say, “Souls are like conscripted soldiers…” I guess I’m a really late bloomer lol